People think that they will be a burdon on someone else
Some people dont even realise that they are depressed. They can have such busy lives and dont see what harsh things are coming on to there lives that shouldnt be there.
When people think about telling someone for the first time they choose not to because they think it will push people away (friends & family)
You may feel as if you will become the center of attention if you become open with people. You think that people may see you as selfish
One of the biggest reasons people may not talk to people about there problems and to be open is because they are scared of the reaction. They dont know if it will be a positive or negative response
If you become open with someone you dont want to be judged and have people think things about you that arent true.
Even though you want someone to listen to you, you also want someone to understand. If it turns out to be a blank conversation things can get worse and it will become pointless to you to express your feelings.
If you do realise that you are sad sometimes you may not think much about it. You may think that you will heal over time and things will get better in life.
None of us really talk about our problems in life because we expect to desolve and hope that things will come easy in life. We end up at problems where we dont know what to do or say
Most of our lifes arent like FULL HOUSE most of our lifes seem to be like LOST
When we are depressed and we try to make a move on our on it sometimes doesnt turn out right. We end up feeling guilty for making the wrong turn and it makes things wors
When we feel depressed we feel there is something wrong with us and we are standed in a world on our on.
People are to afraid of opening up to people because they dont want to push them away. We dont want family and friends to feel ashamed of us. We also dont want our family and friends to not like us anymore and we dont want to be ignored.
Example: If you really knew the type of person i was you wouldnt want to be my friend
or even be around a peson like me.
We dont understand that if we dont open up to someone we will never get help. We will also not know how much better things can get when we get the right kind of help.
The more we talk about our problems weather they are good or bad we learn more about ourselves